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The Sitter

By Sue · Comments (13) · August 15th, 2013

First:  A bit of business…Thank you to everyone who entered the Philips Sound Giveaway! Click here and scroll down to view the winner in the Rafflecopter box of the giveaway post.  I’ve emailed the winner to obtain shipping address information.  I hope that they enjoy their ActionFit headphones as much as I do.

And now…Back to our regularly scheduled post:

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It was 6:50 pm.  Twin A and The Small One were on the floor in the family room, trash talking their way through a game of Go Fish.  Twin B sat on the couch in the adjacent living room, playing a game of Words with Friends on his Ipod. He kept glancing at the wall clock in anticipation.

I made my way over to him, sat down, and peered over his shoulder. “Ridiculous,” I said.

He looked up and widened his eyes in a moment of confusion followed by indignance before he realized that I had just supplied him with his next move. He smiled. “Thanks, Mom.”

“No problem whatsoever.” We sat in silence for few moments. Then I offered, “You are going to put that away when it’s time for the sitter to start, right?”

“Of course, Mom. I’ll leave it in my room for the night.”

“Good…good.”  I stroked his blond hair which was in dire need of a back-to-school trim.  ”And while we’re on the topic of the sitter…let’s review:  When’s bedtime again?”

He didn’t hesitate or look up from Words with Friends. “Nine o’clock sharp.”

“And before bedime?  What’s going to happen?”

Realizing that I needed his full attention in this matter, my son carefully put down his Ipod and fixed his blue eyes upon mine.  ”We’ll play board games and Legos.  No more than an hour of TV.  We’ll read books before bedtime and brush teeth.  But…ummm…what if the sitter wants to leave treats on pillows for a little surprise in the morning?

“I think that’s a great idea.  I sure hope everyone behaves.”

“No worries, Mom.”

“What if you run out of ways to stay amused?”

“I’ve got my Bag of Fun with Apples to Apples, Hot Wheels and track in it.”  He gestured toward the stairway where a drawstring tote sat, the black track with the orange stripes poking out of the top.

“Oh, I’m not worried…I’m just going over the basics for good measure.  I was now intently focused on taming the cowlick toward the back of his crown.  ”And what if…what if there’s an emergency?”

“There are emergency phone numbers on the side of the fridge.  Plus, I’ve known 9-1-1 since I was, like, three, Mom.”  He playfully pushed my hand aside and rearranged his hair so that it fell over his eyebrows once again.

Gwen the Rescued Foxhound-Beagle Mix began to bark as car headlights flooded our entryway through the front door window.

“YES!” Twin B exclaimed, jumping to his feet and peering out the window.

“Ok, hon…this is it…make me proud, OK?”

“Mom.  Haven’t I every time?”

I thought about this.  ”Yes.  Of course you have.  I’ve always heard wonderful things the next morning.”

“So don’t worry…ok?”

“It’s my job, dude.”  I rose from the couch and kissed him on his forehead.  My son grabbed the Bag of Fun from its resting spot, heaved it over his shoulder, trotted down the driveway, and disappeared behind the glare of the headlights.

My son…the babysitter.

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Keeping it Simple: A Philips Headphones Giveaway

By Sue · Comments (44) · August 8th, 2013

Disclosure: I was provided with a set of Philips Sound ActionFit Headphones in order to complete this post. All opinions are my own.

I’m a runner.  Anyone who knows me knows this fact.

And a big part of why a run?  Outside of the fact that it allows me to maintain my sanity as well as my torrid love affair with starchy carbohydrates?

Is the simplicity of it.

All I need is my shoes and something I can sweat in…

And I’m on my way.  Simple as that.

No equipment…No paraphernalia…no muss, no fuss.

I’ve always taken a good deal of pride in the simplicity of it all and turned up my nose juuuust a teensy bit at those who go to gyms and classes with a bag full of gear in tow…or even those runners who head out with headphones and heart rate monitors around their arms and fannypacks full of snacks and watches that could detonate small bombs.

Seriously?  Keep it simple!  Be one with nature and just appreciate what’s around you!

So it ended up being quite serendipitous that Phillips Sound contacted me, asking me to give their ActionFit headphones a trial run, so to speak.

Me?  One with Nature Girl?  Keep it Simple Sue?

But I did.

And I’m so very glad.  Because, friends?

They are simple.

Philips ActionFit Sports Head Phones

Simply awesome.

They have this adjustable, over-the-ear design that ensures a perfect fit, no matter your size.

The sound is incredible.  I had always been somewhat leery of running with music for fear that it would completely block out the sound around me and create a running hazard.

Not so…not so at all.  I enjoyed my Robin Thicke…whilst in the thick of a busy intersection…and had no safety concerns whatsoever.

And, friends?  These headphones are waterproof.  So even if you sweat like a banshee like I do I’ve heard some unfortunate souls do, no worries.  Rinse those babies off?  And you’re good to go.

And on a personal note, I’ve found that having music along makes me a better runner…more conistsent strides, better breathing technique, and motivation to go an extra mile or two.

So I suppose that you could say that Philips has converted me.  Want to join the movement?

Or simply upgrade from your existing sound conditions?

Then enter the giveaway below…as always, multiple entries and sharing are encouraged…go!

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BlogHer13 Recap – Spin Cycle Style

By Sue · Comments (49) · August 1st, 2013

You asked for it.  {actually, you didn’t.}

And so I’ll give it to you. {this much is true}

My Thoughts on BlogHer13…Things that Made Me Smile

My sponsor, Sverve 

Friends, BlogHer tickets aren’t cheap, and I can’t tell you how much I appreciate the support of Sverve. I also love that a Sverve campaign made it possible for my girl Hillary of thehilljean.com to go. I nearly hugged that woman’s face off when I first saw her. {Not on Sverve? Click here and be whisked away to a magical land of community, blog know-how, webinars, and paid opportunities}.

My roommate, Kelley from Kelley’s Break Room

Kelley and I have “known” each other for four years and finally met for the first time on Friday.  When I saw her across hallway at McCormick Place, orchestral stylings swelled in the background and we ran toward each other, arms extended, in slow motion.

BlogHer13 Spin Cycle

We then proceeded to hit the expo and get ourselves some free fake eyelashes.

 

The Suniverse & Leslie Marinelli of The Bearded Iris

These ladies spoke on the topic of blogging anonymously.  While I, myself, am not anonymous here, I try to keep The Cherubs’ identities on the down-low, so I found this session to be beneficial.  Per their advice, I’m now going to call all of The Cherubs Blanket.  Good idea, yes?

The BlogHer Shuttle System

I stayed at the Sheraton, which is approximately three miles away from McCormick Place.  And did I ever walk there or hail a cab? No…Lordy, no!  There was a shuttle that ran back and forth continuously between the two locales. Our drivers were super-friendly and accommodating.  And this one time?  I was even driven there all by my lonesome on that big old bus.

BlogHer13 Shuttle

It made me feel rockstarish, so I duckfaced for the occasion. I won’t ever do it again. Promise.

The Pioneer Woman, Ree Drummond

Ree delivered a memorable opening keynote address that highlighted her initial bumblings before she truly found herself and her corner of the online world.  Bonus:  I met her and her lovely daughter after the keynote, and she was every bit as humble and nonchalant as I’d like the rest of the world to be.

Ree Drummond Pioneer Woman BlogHer13 Spin Cycle

Friends? She asked me for my card. You could’ve knocked me over with a feather.

The BlogHer Voices of the Year Recognition Ceremony

It was a privilege to see and hear so many talented women reading pieces of their writing.  My favorite, by far, was Ann Imig of Ann’s Rants and Listen to Your Mother.  She delivered a seriously motivational piece that was two parts snark, one part Spanish, one part Wrestlemania and two parts Dr. Seuss.

It worked, friends.  Trust me.

Anna of My Life and Kids

Anna held an impromptu, after hours skills demonstration that had those of us around her simultaneously blushing whilst feverishly taking notes.  Let’s just say that the woman has skillz. Mad skillz.

The Parties

They were everything that I had heard them to be.  There were cocktails.

And dancing.

And cocktails.

And food.

And cocktails.

And laughs.

And, um, cocktails.  Which culminated in me executing a magic trick that involved a bottle of red wine, my white dress, a large crashing sound, and ZERO evidence on said dress.

No photo evidence on this one.  But I do have witnesses.  Just ask my new friend Michele if you’d like the lowdown.

Alexandra of Good Day, Regular People & Erin of The Gay Dad Project

These two talented ladies presented a session on shedding blogging facades and writing with an authentic voice.  I truly loved this session.  Life isn’t always failed Lego Cakes and Home Depot wacky hi-jinx, my friends, and I’m going to make a concerted effort to write a bit more from the heart and a bit less off the cuff in the future.  You’d still like me if I did, yes?

Katy in a Corner

Katy taught me about overcoming vlogging fears.  I’m proud to say that I’m no longer petrified by the thought of blogging and now am merely terrified.  I now have plans to present a video post when the cows come home or when hell freezes over, whichever comes first.

The Swag.

Oh, the swag.  Checkitout, friends.

BlogHer Swag

Yeah. I told you. Since my return, The Cherubs have not stopped bickering and bartering over hand sanitizer, flavored water, breath freshener, ear buds, signed books, and Boudreaux Butt Paste. Don’t ask.

Anyway…I’m so very glad I went.

How about you? Have you been to BlogHer? Were you there? Want some Boudreaux Butt Paste?

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I’m Not Sexy. And I Know It {a gardening cautionary tale}

By Sue · Comments (13) · July 25th, 2013

Author’s Note:  This is a rerun of a post that I wrote in 2012.  As I am currently at BlogHer 2013…and have just recovered from a nasty rash…I thought it timely as well as necessary to repost.  Enjoy.

I get a kick out of yard work.  I mean, really.  Have you read my Who is this Woman page?  Or seen my “Dig It” board on Pinterest?

Yeah.  I’m a digging, weeding, perennial-planting, dirt-loving fool.

My groom counts himself as fortunate to have a lawn boy and bride all rolled into one unpaid package. He suggests that the lawn needs mowing?  And I’m all, “Oooh, nooo!  Puh-LEASE don’t throw me in that briar patch, Brer Groom!”

Then with, a giggle, off I traipse to my own little slice of Heaven.

So, this past Saturday, with the sun beating down and a gentle breeze rustling the poplars bordering our property, I was completely in my element as I made my way to the back yard to finish the mowing.  Sassy thing that I am, I took off my tank top and finished the job in my swimsuit top and shorts.  I felt alive.  Strong.  Dare I say…sexy.

*cue LMFAO’s latest hit*

LMFAO

Grass clippings are sexy. And we know it.

Yes.  I felt sexy in my Athleta swimsuit top and board shorts as I pushed the mower around the yard in a precise pattern of zig-zags, dodging dog-do when I came across a spot that I had missed during my pre-mowing scoop session.

But all sexy things must come to an end, friends.

For me?  It happened when I finished the mowing, put the Toro away in the garage, and returned to the back yard with my groom’s weed whacker in hand.

Do any of you female friends know how to use a weed whacker?

Oh, stop gloating.  Because the thing scares the living daylights out of me.  But I wanted to finish the job, so I fiddled with the knobs on the handle until the machine roared to life.

And that?  Was where the sexy evaporated.  When I step out of myself for a moment and recall the ordeal from a third person perspective, my mind’s eye witnesses a scene that could best be compared to Seinfeld’s Cosmo Kramer guest starring in The Texas Chainsaw Massacre.  That piece of machinery took my swimsuit-clad self on a wild goose chase around the perimeter of my yard that still gives me the shakes when I think about it.  I shimmied my way around, power tool in hand, lopping off random sections of overgrown grass, as well as occasional clumps of daisies and moss roses when the whacker careened out of control.

My teeth chattered.

My knees knocked together.

There were parts of me jiggling that no one should have to see jiggling on a woman my age.

So I put the wretched power tool away, cussing under my breath, and decided to pull a few weeds instead.

Because, unlike weed whacking, weeding by hand is sexy.

*restart LMFAO soundtrack*

LMFAO

Hush, garden girl. And hand me that trowel.

 

I weeded the Dickens out of my flower beds.

Two hours later, as I sat on my back patio, MGD 64 at my side, admiring my handiwork, I glanced down and noticed a smattering of teenytiny red bumps forming a semicircle just below my rib cage.

Mysterious gardening-induced allergic reactions are not sexy, friends.

And neither was the speed with which this reaction proceeded to spread across my entire torso, arms, and legs.  Nor was how it crept up toward my face, threatening to squinch my eyeballs shut and leave me looking like something out of Mad Magazine – HGTV Edition.

Furthermore?  A trip to the dermatologist and a prescription for rash-combatting oral steroids and oatmeal baths are not sexy either.  Much like flesh-hiding cowboy boots and cardigan sweaters on a sweltering day in Chicagoland are unsexy.

So here I sit, in my boots and cardigan, at my kitchen table in front of my laptop, hopped up on oral steroids on a picture-perfect afternoon at the end of May.

Outside, the sun beams.  Birds chirp.  The yard beckons.

And I tell it to shut the flippin-flap up.

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Let’s FEAST!

By Sue · Comments (29) · July 18th, 2013

Disclosure: I received compensation from Feast for writing this post. All opinions are most definitely my own.

Do you cook?

Well.  Bully for you.  I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again: I’m not much of a chef.

I’ve tried. Really, I have.  Years ago, I took a series of cooking classes that were taught by a woman that looked like so:

1 Snob Woman

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Who, when I asked the most basic of questions, gave me answers like so:

filepicker-sUCZIgDHQTKreXrg0RxL_ain-t-nobody-got-time-fo-dat-sweet-brown-31241125-480-330

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Yeah.  You can probably guess how those classes went over.  And I’ve had an irrational fear of organized cooking lessons {referred to in culinary therapy circles as IFOOCL} ever since.

All the same, I was intrigued when introduced to Feast, an online cooking resource that claims that anyone can learn to cook.

Anyone?

Online?

In the privacy of my own home?

I furtively agreed to give Feast a test run, knowing that if things went awry, I could always drown my sorrows with a glass or four of  Cabernet and an evening of Feast bashing on Twitter.

It was my intent to have Twin A help me on this little project.  She? Is a little chef in the making. Remember?

But alas, Twin A has been away at camp this week.  Without my little Betty Crocker, I looked around the homestead and fixed my attention upon the boys.

“Guys! Let’s cook!” I exhorted in the most enthusiastic intonation I could muster.

They made themselves scarce until I hog tied coaxed them back to the kitchen with the promise that we would be using my laptop to learn.  I’ve found that my Cherubs can be talked into anything with the allure of a keyboard and wifi dangling in front of them like a proverbial carrot.

We began with Feast’s seven day crash course.  It’s free when you sign up…why not, right?

Day One was entitled “How to Use Your Tongue.” There were no R-rated shenanigans…just a brief lesson in trusting your instincts and playing with flavors in your spice drawer.

Mexican Spices

After some blind taste-testing, The Small One found that he had an affinity for Mexican spices…

Ginger

…paired with ginger. My IFOOCL flared up a bit when I saw this, but the lesson was about trusting our palates, so I rolled with it.

So far, so good.

We then moved on to Day Two, where the most basic of basics was covered:  How to Hold and Use a Knife.

This is the point at which I began to fall in love with Feast.  Within minutes, My twelve year-old Twin B was wielding a knife like a pro and chopping up vegetables for in preparation for Day Three.

Diced Potato

Am I the only person on the planet that didn’t know that this is the correct way to chop? Fingers and thumb of the non-cutting hand behind the blade serving as a guide.

Diced Potatoes

Purty. Or as purty as raw diced spuds can be, anyway.

On Days Three and Four, entitled “How to Cook Everything” and “Order of Operations,” we were challenged to use our preferred spice combinations along with the veggies that we had chopped and saved in order to prepare a simple dish.

Cute Puppies

You are now so smitten with this image of cute puppies that you have completely forgotten that there was to be a picture of spicy sauteed potatoes here. Let’s just say that Gwen the rescued Foxhound-Beagle Mix kept me away from the stove for 15 minutes, during which time the poor potatoes had our smoke alarm singing. This is no fault of Feast’s.

Day Four’s lesson was about How to Fix Broken Dishes.  And no, it did not involve superglue…it was a series of quick-fixes for food disasters.

Chili too spicy?  Feast has an answer for that.

Sauce too runny?  They’ve got that covered, too.

Unburning diced potatoes?  Dude.  They’re not magicians.  But still…I have printed out these fixes and tucked them into my recipe box for quick reference.  I love how Feast readily admits that things can and very well may go awry. Such is the nature of the cooking beast.

The rest of the series was equally applicable:  Sexy Food and The Final Project challenged us to create palatable looking dishes as well as to take on one of the recipes from their online recipe book.

Feast’s crash course put my mind at ease and made my tragic case of IFOOCL nothing but an unpleasant memory and an unsavory acronym.

Now…if you’re a bit more advanced than I? Feast has online recipe tutorials that would impress even the snobbiest of food snobs.

Fire Roasting

Fire Roasting

Seared Steak

Searing the Perfect Steak

All presented in an extremely palatable, non-threatening, often hilarious format.

Want to get your Feast on?

Of course you do.  Sign up for the free Crash Course here…

And use the following code to receive an enrollment discount  on any of their already modestly priced recipe lessons:  spincycle50

Before you go, tell me in a comment, please:  Have you taken cooking classes before? If so, how did they go over?

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Ushering in the Chaos

By Sue · Comments (29) · July 11th, 2013

Happy Thursday, friends.Return Flight Home

And a happy one it is.

This time tomorrow? I’ll be bound for Chicago.  After 32 days in Silicon Valley with Sverve at 500 Startups, I’m going home for good.  It’s amazing to think of all that I’ve done during my time here.

I met my Sverve team in person.  Up until 500S, we had been relegated to Skype conversations and email correspondence.  They are a quality crew full of imagination and with an incredible work ethic.

I co-hosted an event for Bay Area Influencers including big blogging deals like Jadah of Simple Green Smoothies, Maya of MemeTales, Rachelle of TinkerLab and Chrissy, The Outlaw Mom.  I so look forward to reconnecting with Maya and Chrissy in just a couple of weeks at BlogHer Chicago.

I emceed two Sverve webinars for presenters Gigi of KludgyMom and Tiffany of BloggyMoms.  They are both class acts that I also can’t wait to see at BlogHer.

I have learned more about Search Engine Optimization than I ever thought I’d care to know, thanks to the fabulous Vanita of The Strategic Mama.  During my after hours and by following her sage advice, I have reworked every post on this site and improved its Alexa Ranking dramatically.

I launched SverveBlog’s Influencer of the Week series.

I have had a hand in increasing Sverve’s influencer membership by 20 per cent.

I have met entrepreneurs from the world over.  This batch of  500 Startups is particularly international and makes me wish that my own language repertoire featured more than English, French, and Pig Latin. Ammitday.

And while I wouldn’t change any of these experiences for the world, I cannot wait to get home.  Being here has not come without a price.

Because, friends?

I’ve learned something about myself on this trip.  As much as I love my peace and quiet and order?

I need some degree of chaos in my life.

I have missed digging into my shoulder bag for my wallet and coming up with a handful of The Small One’s origami creations.

I’m overthinking everything.  I do my best writing when I have set a microwave timer for three-zero-zero-zero-start and allowed myself a mere half an hour of composition time before heading off to pick up Twin A from volleyball camp or theater practice or a friends house or what have you.

I’m not tired enough when I go to bed.  The culprit:  Twin B is not around to meander into my room with questions about God and Heaven and Science and Creation and Why Do You Love Me So Much, Mom?

Furthermore, I need my groom interrupting my evening work sessions by raising an eyebrow at me when I’ve kept my laptop open for entirely to long.  I need him to tell me to shut it down already and call it a night.

I need the embrace of a dear friend who has received an ugly medical prognosis and who needs as much love as my tired arms and aching heart are capable of squeezing out.

This…this, my friends…

Is the stuff of which memories are built.

And I’ve missed quite enough memory building, thankyouverymuch.

It’s time to go home and get myself knee-deep in some chaos.

See you in Chicago.

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Navigating Silicon Valley: A Multiple Choice Quiz

By Sue · Comments (28) · June 27th, 2013

I’ve been navigating Silicon Valley for a good two and a half weeks now.  And after the first trip to the grocery store…when I was looked square in the eye by the cashier and asked if I wanted to purchase paper bags for my loot at a dime apiece…

…and I was all, “You’re kidding, right?”

…and he was all, “You’re not from around here, are you?”

…I realized that there are a several nuances about California living that one simply has to learn through experience.

Or, in your case, through…

Wait for it…

Navigating Silicon Valley

A Multiple Choice Quiz

1.  If you wish to travel around Mountain View in an environmentally conscious manner, which is the best choice?

a)  Carpool

b)  Skateboard

c)  One of these beauties:

burning man bike

A few hundred feather boas, a dozen tubes of superglue, and a week under the influence of marijuana is all it takes to fashion one for yourself.  {I asked}

2.  It’s your lunch break.  You’re hungry as all get-out, but you know you should spend your hour bringing your car in for its state-mandated smog check, which should you do first?

a)  Eat!  For the love of peace, eat!

b)  Do the right thing.  Bring the car in.  It’s what the Terminator would have wanted.

c)  You don’t have to choose!  Just go to Papa John’s and do both!

Papa John's Smog Check

I had a small pepperoni pizza and an order of breadsticks with a side of brake fluid.

3.  If you wish to make a quick transition from work wear to evening wear, what is the most efficient way to do so?

a) Wear your work clothes out to the bar

b)  Change in the bathroom at the office

c)  Change out in the open, en route to your rendezvous.  No one will notice…unless you are careless with the evidence.

Pants on the Ground

And people thought that “Pants on the Ground” dude from American Idol was a flash in the pan.  Pffffffft.

4.  You’re standing at the locked door to the 500 Startups office.  It looks like so.  What do you do?

Lockitron Door

Note the key hole. This question is more complicated than it would appear.

a) Use your key.  Duh.

b)  Use the 500 Startups-issued Lockitron app to deftly zap the door open.

c)  Fumble with your smartphone, which you have had all of one month and still can’t operate properly.  After five minutes, manage to find the appropriate app.  Point your phone at the door and hit “unlock” to avail.  Repeat this step thirty-seven times.  Then crouch next to the door and hug your knees.  Rock yourself and weep quietly until someone exits, whacking you in the head with the door.  Rise, blow your nose, and enter, clinging to the shard of dignity that wasn’t left on the other side of the door.

5.  What do you call a man-made raised surface on a street designed to encourage traffic to maintain a safe rate of speed?

a) A waker-upper.

b)  A speed bump.

c)

Speed Bum Sign

Does this make you blush and/or giggle uncontrollably? Tell me I’m not the only one.

 

**Bonus Question**  Which street in downtown Mountain View has the greatest number of speed humps?

a) California Avenue

b) Mariposa Lane

c)  Church street.  Of course.

Pray hard...Play hard.

Pray hard…Play hard.

So…how did you do?

Have you lived in or visited The Golden State?  What oddities have you discovered?

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My Own Best Company

By Sue · Comments (33) · June 20th, 2013

When I was small…Apartment Keys

Smaller than The Small One…

We’re talking toddler small…

I was fond of playing with keys.

Makes me wonder why the parental unit dropped the big bucks on wind-up swings and doorway jumpers.

I’m not quite certain what the allure was.  Heck…I was only one year of age…but to hear my parents tell the tale, if you gave me a set of keys, I would play quietly with them until the cows came home.

You know…if we had cows.  Which we didn’t.  It was just a one-bedroom starter unit in suburban middle class New Jersey.

But anyway.

I thought that keys were the bee’s knees.  And one afternoon, so goes the story,  Mom and I were were playing peek-a-boo on the family room floor.  Those were the days…before the concept of object permanence worked its way into my teenytiny brain.

Whoa! Mom?  Mom?  Where’d you go?  Oh…*there* you are, you crafty grown-up person, you!  Don’t be a stranger, now…wait!  MOM? 

At some point during this exchange, Mom realized that she needed to run to the neighbors’ a few doors down the hallway.  And, knowing that she would be gone for a mere 90 seconds, tops, she tossed me her keys by way of temporary entertainment and hightailed it down the corridor after closing our apartment door carefully behind her.

What?  This was during the early 1970s…that glorious era when choking hazards and the danger of lead paint ingestion and child abandonment  hadn’t been invented yet.

Now, Mom was a bright lady.  But we all have our moments, and this was to be one of hers.  As soon as she had closed the door, she realized that the way back in was clenched in my grubby little one year-old fist.

And then?  She did what any good parent in that scenario would do.  She freaked right out.  There was wailing and hair pulling and gnashing of teeth.  After forty-five minutes punctuated by frantic phone calls and a visit from the local fire department {why is the fire department always called, even when there’s no fire?} our apartment door was finally reopened.  And when it was, Mom, along with the neighbor lady, the landlord {why did he not have a stinkin’ key?}, and half a dozen of Matawan Township’s Finest all spilled inside to find…

…Me, contendedly fiddling with her key ring.  Not a care in the world.  Hey, Mom!  Oooh…you brought friends…we can have a peek-a-boo round-robin tournament!  But, hey…can I hang onto the keys? These things rock, man!

Why am I telling you this?

Because, from what I can gather, it captures the childhood me:  Independent-with-a-Capital-I.

And now…some forty years later…not a whole lot has changed.

Okay.  I have more hair.  I have mastered the art of bladder control.  And I don’t shout My kingdom for a ring of keys! Every time that I see a set.  At least I try not to.

But I am still fiercely independent.

I mean…here I am, hundreds of miles away from my family and friends…

And I’m ok.

Oh, I’ve met plenty of people.  The folks here at 500 Startups meet for lunch and dinner and happy hours and ping-pong and soccer tournaments and weekend getaways.  They are always considerate to ask me to join them.

But, more often than not, I decline.

Methinks that theythinks me a wee bit unfriendly at times.

But I’m ok with that.

I go for long runs by myself.

I spend weekend afternoons wandering the hipster neighborhood streets.  In the evenings after work, I snuggle into a booth at Panera with no more company than my Kindle, a bread bowl of soup, and free wifi.

And, truth be told, I’m relishing my alone time.

Don’t I miss my family?

Sure I do.  I touch base daily via text or phone, and they’re doing great.

There’s no Mom! When are you coming back?

My bride!  When shalt thou return?

And I know better to take it personally.

I’ll see them in a few weeks…refreshed, renewed, and ready to tackle the second half of summer madness.  It’ll come soon enough.

But for now…

I’m enjoying my keys my own company.

What about you?  Do you prefer your own company or the company of others?  Or some of both?

Linking with Mama Kat.

 

 

 

 

 

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Camp 500 Startups

By Sue · Comments (17) · June 13th, 2013

“Are you having fun?”

The Small One sounds older than his nine years at the other end of the line.  Is it possible that he could have aged significantly in the four days that I have been gone?

I brush that thought aside and answer his question.  ”Sure, it’s fun.  I’m learning a lot.”

“Learning?  Like in school?”  His voice is suddenly filled with skepticism.  ”Then it can’t be that fun.”

“No…it’s not like school,” I clarify.  ”It’s more like…like…”

“Like a camp?”  He offers.

“Yes…more like camp, I suppose.”

This seems to resonate with him.  We chat about other things for a few minutes before saying goodbye. And after I’ve hung up, I think about his question.

This place is, indeed, like camp.

I rise early from my sleeping quarters

500 Startups - Housing

And hike a familiar path to my destination.

Mountain View - Shoreline Blvd

Summer is in full bloom here, and I enjoy the trek.

On every walk, I take note of some lovely sight that I hadn’t seen the day before.

Mountain View Flowers

Eventually, I make my way to the place where I gather with the others.

500 Startups Desk

Formality plays no part in this equation.  Comfort is the rule of thumb.

Here we learn

500 Startups Class

And create.  And make connections that span continents and that that will last a lifetime.

500 Startups Partners

Sometimes I catch myself gazing at the landscape that sprawls before me.  I take time to enjoy the view. Everyone knows that camp is a temporary arrangement.

Mountain View

For this?  I am thankful.

Because as much as I’m soaking in this experience…

I look forward to my return in three and a half weeks.

Inspired by a prompt from Mama Kat’s Writer’s Workshop: What does June look like in your neck of the woods?

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Being Mom – and Working It

By Sue · Comments (32) · June 6th, 2013

Working Mom

I was filling out The Twins’ registration forms for seventh grade (Gah!  I’m OLD!) and my pen hovered over the empty rectangle on the sterile-looking form.

EMPLOYER.

Huh.

That blank had been empty since the day I registered my dynamic duo for kindergarten.

For years, it had been a twisted ritual of mine to imagine filling in that rectangle with a snarky response that bordered on narcissistic:

EMPLOYER:

One not quite housebroken mixed breed canine.

Three highly precocious pre-teens.

Da Man.  Ev’ry night a-and day. {shimmy, shimmy}

And then?

It occurred to me that, for the first time in twelve years, I had a legitimate response to insert within that rectangle.

My thoughts flitted over the whirlwind that has been the past five months:

The job opportunity that, more or less, fell into my lap and seduced me back into the work force.

The exhilaration that has come with being part of a startup, grass-roots effort that is flourishing before my very eyes and growing at a mind-boggling rate of speed.

The consequent decision I made to step waaaaaay the heck outside of my comfort zone and join my work team in California for a month.

What?

Yep.  You heard me right.  I leave on Monday.

Today is the first day of summer vacation.  And in four days, I’ll board a plane and make myself a temporary home in Silicon Valley.

I almost declined the opportunity.  My coworkers would have understood.  After all, I’m the only mom on the team.  And that’s not what a good mom does.  

I mean…really.

Right?

Or maybe…just maybe…

A good mom shows through her actions that you’re never to old to make a new start.

A good mom demonstrates that traditional gender roles and responsibilities are not set in stone…and that it is not a crime to break with tradition.

A good mom empowers her children by teaching them independence and adaptability.

A good mom won’t let herself live with a cloud of regret and whispers of “if only” trailing her for the next decade.

Maybe.  And maybe not.

But I won’t know…

Unless I try.

All of these sentiments swam around in my mind as I filled out The Twins’ paperwork.  Sap that I am, tears pricked my eyes and blurred my vision.

I blinked them away and filled in the EMPLOYER rectangle.  With no snark whatsoever.

Then I carefully tucked the forms in their envelopes

And started packing.

Friends, I am honored to say that my employer, Sverve, was selected from a field of thousands of applicants to participate in 500 Startups‘ Accelerator Program in Mountain View, California.  I am equally honored that Team Sverve would like me there with them during this exciting experience. 

Blogging friends…you need Sverve in your life.  Blogging tools?  Community?  Paid writing opportunities?  Killer webinars?  Sverve has it all and will take your blog to the next level.

Linking with Shell at Things I Can’t Say 

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